LADIES DID YOU KNOW THIS??

1. Beauty attracts men but wisdom keeps them.
2. Elegance catches men’s attention but intelligence convinces them.
3. Nagging irritates men but ‘constructive word’ silence and weakens them.
4. The ‘boy’ in everyman pumps out occasionally, your ability to handle this, is a woman’s truest maturity.
5. Men have secret struggles and silent pains. should you ever find them out exhibit the greatest maturity.
6. In the long-run your ‘words’ matters more to a man than your ‘looks’. so invest the right words.
7. Earn a man’s respect and he will consider you the yard stick 4 all his action.
8. Learn to mould the moods of your man.
9. Men will naturally give u their futures if they can recall your maturity in yesterday’s issues..
10. Women are every where but queens are scarce. Let the queen in you come alive and he will hold you in high esteem.

75 Relationship Quotes to Live by…

Here are 75 relationship quotes, to help you keep things in perspective and move your relationships in a positive direction.

1. In life you’ll realize there is a purpose for everyone you meet. Some will test you, some will use you, and some will teach you. But most importantly, some will bring out the best in you.
2. Keep people in your life who truly love you, motivate you, encourage you, enhance you, and make you happy. If you know people who do none of these things, let them go.
3. Love is not about sex, going on fancy dates, or showing off. It’s about being with a person who makes you happy in a way nobody else can.
4. Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring – all of which have the potential to turn a life around.
5. The most beautiful thing is to see a person you love smiling. And even more beautiful is knowing that you are the reason behind it.
6. Choose your relationships wisely. It’s better to be alone than to be in bad company.
7. Being alone does not mean you are lonely, and being lonely does not meanyou are alone.
8. Fall in love when you’re ready, not when you’re lonely.
9. Love means giving someone the chance to hurt you, but trusting them not to.
10. You know you’ve found true love when you catch yourself falling in love with the same person over and over again.
11. Don’t wait for the right person to come into your life. Rather, be the right person to come to someone’s life.
12. The one who is meant for you encourages you to be your best, but still loves and accepts you at your worst.
13. Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option.
14. Some relationships are like glass. It’s better to leave it broken, than to hurt yourself more by trying to put it back together.
15. Just because one person doesn’t seem to care for you, doesn’t mean you should forget about everyone else who does.
16. Someone else doesn’t have to be wrong for you to be right.
17. It is okay to be angry. It is never okay to be cruel.
18. Never do something permanently foolish just because you are temporarily upset.
19. Silence is often the loudest cry. Pay attention to those you care about.
20. We don’t always need advice. Sometimes all we need is a hand to hold, an ear to listen, and a heart to understand.
21. It’s not so much what you say that counts, it’ how you make people feel.
22. A silent hug means a thousand words to the unhappy heart.
23. Don’t mess with someone’s feelings just because you’re unsure of yours.
24. True happiness comes from within, not from someone else. Don’t make the mistake of waiting on someone or something to come along and make you happy.
25. Don’t choose the one who is beautiful to the world, choose the one who makes your world beautiful.
26. If you feel like your ship is sinking, it might be a good time to throw out the stuff that’s been weighing it down. Let go of people who bring you down, and surround yourself with those who bring out the best in you.
27. Just because it didn’t last forever, doesn’t mean it wasn’t worth your while.
28. Say what you mean and mean what you say. Don’t expect others to read your mind, and don’t play games with their heads and hearts. Don’t tell half-truths and expect people to trust you when the full truth comes out. Half-truths are no better than lies. And don’t ignore someone you care about, because lack of concern hurts more than angry words.
29. Lies help no one in the long run. So… 1) Don’t say “I love you” if you don’t mean it. 2) Don’t say “I understand” if you have no clue. 3) Don’t say “I’m sorry” if you’re not. 4)Be honest with yourself and your loved ones.
30. Tell the truth, or eventually someone will tell it for you.
31. Good relationships don’t just happen; they take time, patience and two people who truly want to work to be together.
32. Falling in love is not a choice. To stay in love is.
33. Love doesn’t hurt. Lying, cheating and screwing with people’s feelings and emotions hurts.
34. When it comes to relationships, remaining faithful is never an option but a priority. Loyalty is everything.
35. A great relationship is about two things: First, appreciating the similarities, and second, respecting the differences.
36. Jealousy is the art of counting someone else blessings instead of your own. Don’t waste your time on jealousy. The only person you’re competing against is yourself.
37. Do not become possessive. The purpose of a relationship is to complement each other, grow together, and achieve your common goals as a couple. At the same time, you must each maintain your individual identity as a human being.
38. Don’t ever change just to impress someone. Change because it makes you a better person and leads you to a better future.
39. Give, but don’t allow yourself to be used. Listen to others, but don’t lose your own voice.
40. Don’t look for someone who will solve all your problems; look for someone who will face them with you.
41. You don’t really need someone to complete you. You only need someone to accept you completely.
42. Speak when you are very angry, and you’ll make the best speech you’ll ever regret.
43. Grudges are a waste of perfect happiness. Let it go.
44. As we grow up, we realize it becomes less important to have more friends and more important to have real ones.
45. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.
46. Respect is earned, honesty is appreciated, trust is gained, and loyalty is returned.
47. Never waste a moment, it may be the last with someone you love.
48. If you love someone, tell them. Forget about the rules or the fear of looking ridiculous. What is really ridiculous is passing up on an opportunity to tell someone that your heart is invested in them.
49. Nobody gets through life without losing someone they love, someone they need, or something they thought was meant to be. But it is these losses that make us stronger and eventually move us toward future
opportunities.
50. Never stop doing little things for others. Sometimes those little things occupy the biggest part of their hearts.
51. The best portion of your life will be the small, nameless moments you spend smiling with someone who matters to you.
52. A real person is not perfect, and a perfect person is not real.
53. To the world, you might be just one person. But to one person, you might be the world.
54. Just because you have a past with someone, doesn’t mean you should have a future with them.
55. No relationship is a waste of time. The wrong ones teach you the lessons that prepare you for the right ones.
56. The first to apologize is the bravest. The first to forgive is the strongest. The first to move forward is the happiest.
57. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn’t be in it.
58. Characterize people by their actions and you will never be fooled by their words.
59. When the pain of holding on is worse than the pain of letting go, it is time to let go.
60. If a friend is in trouble, don’t bother them by asking if there is anything you can do. Think of something appropriate and do it.
61. Sometimes it is better to be kind than to be right. We do not always need an intelligent mind that speaks, just a patient heart that listens.
62. Be the friend that you want to have.
63. There are times when family are like strangers, and strangers are like family. Both sets of people are priceless.
64. In disagreements with loved ones, deal only with the current situation. Don’t bring up the past.
65. Instead of judging people by their past, stand by them and help repair their future.
66. Don’t try to be everything to everyone. Be everything to someone.
67. Let us remember that we can’t force anyone to love us. We can’t beg someone to stay when they want to leave and be with someone else. This is what love is all about. However, the end of love is not the end of life. It should be the beginning of understanding that love leaves for a reason, but never leaves without a lesson.
68. When things fall apart, consider the possibility that life knocked it down on purpose. Not to bully you, or to punish you, but to prompt you to build something that better suits your personality and your purpose. Sometimes things fall apart so better things can fall together.
69. Everyone wants a perfect ending. But over the years I’ve learned that some of the best poems don’t rhyme, and many great stories don’t have a clear beginning, middle, or end. Life is about not knowing, embracing change, and taking a moment and making the best of it without knowing what’s going to happen next.
70. In human relationships, distance is not measured in miles but in affection. Two people can be right next to each other, yet miles apart. So stay in touch with those who truly matter to you. Not because it’s convenient, but because they’re worth the extra effort.
71. Never neglect the people who are most important to you simply because you think they will always be there. Because one morning you might wake up and realize you lost the moon while counting the stars.
72. True love isn’t about being inseparable; it’s about two people being true to each other even when they are separated.
73. True friendship and true love do sustain the tests of distance and time.
74. When someone gives you their time, they are giving you a portion of their life that they will never get back. It’s one of the most precious gifts you can receive. Don’t waste it.
75. Good relationships are not just about the good times you share; they’re also about the obstacles you go through together, and the fact that you still say “I love you” in the end.

SEVEN (7) WAYS ON HOW TO MAKE YOUR RELATIONSHIP LAST FOREVER!

Many relationships break within a short period of time but we all never take time to find the reasons why we broke up with our Ex- Girlfriends and
boyfriends. So here are the ways to make your relationship stronger and it lasts forever.

1. BEING HONEST;
If you aren’t honest with yourself, about who you are, what you want, where you are going… you can’t possibly be honest with your partner. So be honest with yourself first.

2. TRUST;
Nothing makes a relationship shaky faster than broken trust, it’s very hard to repair trust. Trust your lover from the smallest detail.

3. RESPECT;
If you want a solid relationship, respect is an essential part. You need to respect your partner’s needs and wants, their weaknesses and strengths, their dreams and goals. You need to respect who they are….

4. COMMUNICATION;
It’s hard to trust someone who won’t communicate with you well and
effectively. This includes body language… Become aware of your body language, and make certain that it reflects the actual words that come out of your mouth. Listening is as big a part. Don’t make conversations a competition. Focus on things that you have in common that’s what brings you together.

5. ATTENTION;
When you give your partner and your relationship attention, they will notice and respond. When you give them less, they will notice that, too. Give your attention in ways that show that you are thinking about them, not about you. Giving your partner attention doesn’t necessarily even involve time with them. It can be picking out something that they will like and getting it for them, or making them something, or planning a trip that they will enjoy, etc. Giving them attention simply means spending time and energy on them, even if most of
that time and energy isn’t actually with them…

6. INTIMACY;
The more intimacy your relationship has, the stronger it will be… Provided that the intimacy is mutual.

7. COMMITMENT;
Everyone needs it for a good, strong, deep relationship. The commitment I am talking about here doesn’t have to be marriage. It simply means that you can rely on the other person to be there, to put effort into your relationship, to keep you near the top of their list of priorities.

REASONS WHY YOUR MAN MIGTH NOT WaLK DOWN THE ALTAR WITH YOU

………. Relationship is meant for matured and serious minded people. Being fully grown does not really guarantee that one is emotionally matured enough to handle a serious commitment in terms of relationship. When you are into someone who you believe is the one for you but he has never brought up the issue of marriage and when you picks the courage to talk about it, he never make any serious contribution; he promises you his love but its taking him eternity to solidify his commitment and set up a wedding date, find out the reasons behind his dragging of his feet. Here are some of the things that can make him drag his feet.

*He may be having another woman in
mind or he is waiting for another
woman to finally make up her mind but is using you to while away the time. A man can be so close, spends time with you but has another lady in mind for marriage. Do not waste your time and energy on any man who has no plans of getting married to you.

*When his family pressurizes him not to take you for a wife for some reasons: maybe due to your culture, finance or religion. When a man has fear, cannot make his own decision and lives under the influence of his parents. Such man don’t know what he want and if you by chance wins the hurdle and marry him, you will continue to keep guard because the family can surprise you in the future. Why prefer to live in fear in the name of marriage? A man who cannot take decision and think for himself is a poor investment of your time and energy.

*What type of impression do you give
the man who is interested in you? That you are not ready for marriage even when you look old enough? Do you hang out with different men? This will certainly make a man drag his feet because you are undecided about him.
*He will surely drag his feet when you
give him much sex as he needs it; do
you know why? He already has what
he need to pay for, free of charge so,
there is no need to be committed to
you and he also have the belief that you give sex to other guys too.

*He drags his feet when he sees that
you will become a liability to him. Is
your vision, life and career unstable?
Put yourself in order because it might
be the reason why the man coming
around you finds it difficult to be committed. When a man is not ready for you, don’t force things. Know what you want and don’t put your life on hold because a man is finding it difficult to make decisions. You have only one life, try and live it with clarity of purpose.

TEN COMMANDMENT FOR LADIES/GIRLS.

1.Don’t be in a hurry to move out of your parents house.
2. Don’t wait for a man before you start living. You can live a fulfilled life as a single woman.
3. Stay away from alcohol. It has killed others and you are not special.
4. Don’t entertain a wrong number call, especially at night. Its not the right way to find a lover. 5.Develop a healthy eating habit. Always take breakfast and avoid sweets.
6. Dress well: impression count. People will judge you by the way you dress even before they talk to you
7. Don’t use sex as proof of love. Sex is no proof of love, he’ll leave you after the sex.
8. Don’t marry for the money, else you’ll become one of his possessions.
9. Add value to yourself – get a career. Don’t be fooled that a man will solve all your problems.
10. Beauty is not everything. If it is all you have, you’ll lose your place to someone beautiful better more matured and competent than you.

WHY CONFUSE LUST FOR LOVE?

Wouldn’t it be great if the signs were obviously clear about love. I mean, you spend time with someone, they do a lot for you, you laugh together, go places together, they tell you they love you…so it must be love, right?
Understanding if someone loves you can be confusing because there is so much going on in the relationship that looks like love but doesn’t quite feel like love. For every great moment spent together there could be moments that feel like pain, grief and loneliness. It can be hard to tell if
you are being loved when you have so many things to wonder about.
Love and Lust – Whats the Difference?
Love and Lust are two very strong emotions that feel quite the same. They feel so much alike they are often mistaken for one another. Some people that are in Lust think they are in Love. This mistaken identity is the main cause for relationships that are troubled with disrespect, inconsideration, and lack of appreciation.
Both Love and Lust can be fun, exciting, and give you that “butterflies in the stomach” feeling. But only one will stand against the storm and fight till the end for you.
#Attributes of Love:
Love is committed to the relationship, it will make sacrifices for you, it will inconvenience itself for you, and your feelings will always comes first.
Love will take the time to get to know more about you, your family, your career, your likes and dislikes. Love will know your favorite color, what makes you laugh and what makes you cry. It loves being with you in any way it can, even if it’s just cooking with you, watching T.V. or just watching you talk on the phone. Love isn’t sex driven, it’s driven off you as a person. You are the one that makes the other happy, not sex. Sex is only an extension of that love.
#Attributes of Lust:
Lust is not committed to the relationship. It will not make sacrifices for you, it will almost never
inconvenience itself for you and your feelings most of the time will be second. Lust will not take the time to get to know more about you, your family, your career, your likes and
dislikes. Lust doesn’t know your favorite color or what makes you laugh or cry. Lust will want to see you every time for sex and if you don’t want to
have sex, there will be an attitude. Lust is driven off sex. It’s sex that makes the other happy, not you. Sex is very important and without it, the
relationship stands to suffer.
Love is actually VERY HARD. It takes a lot of self sacrificing and patience. It takes a special person to care enough to deal with issues and problems that
may come up in a relationship in a way that shows compassion. Love will look for the cause of problems and fix it. People that can do this understand that if you love someone, there is no
option but to work to hold the relationship together.
Lust looks for the easy way out of issues and problems that may come up in a relationship. They may look to sex as a fix for problems instead of trying to get to the root of the problem. Lust will be very impatient when issues arise and sometimes turn to other relationships for a sense of relief. Lust looks for options to get out of the relationship when things gets rough.
Search your heart this evening………. Are you in Lust or Love???

Seven(7) Topics To Be Discussed Before Having A Baby With Your Partner

Deciding to start a family is not like it used to be. Once upon a time it was marry young, immediately start family, mom stays home raising, baking, and cleaning while dad is working the desk job. Times are much more complicated these days with both parents working and sharing household duties, most of us have established careers or are on a certain path and birth control is the norm (or must). Making that step from just the two of you to family is huge with important issues to discuss and agree upon before trying to make that leap.

Here are 7 issues to discuss with your
partner before ditching the birth control:

1.) Difficulty Conceiving
What if you and your partner are ready and wanting a baby, but you aren’t able to get pregnant? The two of you need to figure out what steps you are each willing to take in order to become parents – fertility treatment, adoption, surrogacy – and agree on them.

2.) Birth
Perhaps you are fantasizing about an all natural, in home birth that might completely freak your partner out or vice versa. Who do you want to be
there when the baby is born? I’m a big believer in the person delivering the baby should decide how she wants to deliver and who she wants in the room, but it’s only fair to discuss your wishes beforehand so you can be on the same page.

3.) How Many Kids
Seems so simple, right? What if you always dreamed of having 3 kids and your partner never wants more than one? Not so simple anymore, so have this talk.

4.) Dividing Parental Duties
This might seem like a no brainer, you are picturing your partner giving bottles and changing diapers. That picture is in your head, unless you discuss, as in say it out loud, your
partner will never know. It’s also not reasonable for one parent to do it all, even if the mom is off on maternity leave and exclusively breast feeding.
There are still diapers to be changed, laundry to be washed and baby to bath and all those other household responsibilities. Discussing who can do what, even making a chart will help with resentment later on (and there will be resentment if one person is doing nearly all the work!)

5.) Challenges Of Pregnancy And Post
Partum
Let’s face it, pregnancy and post delivery are tough emotionally and physically. You’ve got raging hormones, which can make you very
sensitive and seemingly unreasonable, but you ARE reasonable! Your body changes and you feel self conscious about this drastic weight gain, not to mention the all over pains you experience on a daily basis. Basically your body is taken over to create this baby and you don’t get it back after the baby is delivered because now you are the food source and everything is flabby and hangs differently. Yep, it’s true so make sure you and your partner are talking about dealing with these changes. Also, what if you end up on bed rest? Will your partner be able to take over all responsibilities having to do with the house?

6.) Gender Preference
Are you willing to raise a girl if all you ever wanted was a boy? You don’t really get to choose what sex your baby will be so make sure you and the
partner will love and adore whatever the two of you create.

7.) Support System
Who will be there to help after the baby is born? Do you have family living close or coming to visit? Do you both really want a house-guest for the first month (or two, gasp!) of your new life as a family?

This list is really about opening your relationship up to discussing issues that will come up, perhaps not all, but many. If they are not discussed, preferably before it’s actually an issue,
then resentment builds and arguments will follow. So really just see this as relationship building and gearing you both up of for the wild and unexpected ride that parenting is. Since there’s really nothing that can totally prepare you, might as well reduce some arguments!

Five (5) Biggest Reasons Why Relationships Fail

There are several reasons why relationships don’t work out well. We will put in here just five of those biggest reasons.

1. FAILURE TO COMMUNICATE MORE – in any relationship, communication is essential. One needs to let the other person know what is in his or her mind. We cannot keep on second-guessing the other person. Open communication even becomes critical so as not to misunderstand each other. Problems arise when one partner expects the other to read his or her mind and you will agree with me that this is close to impossible. Once I had a relationship with an introvert. In our 1st few months of the relationship whenever she gets angry she just keeps quiet all the time and I get frustrated because it was like I was talking to a wall. But later she too realized that it was necessary for her to communicate and express herself in order to reconcile and put the unity back between us. We must also seek to be a listener and have an attitude like this:” I want to understand her so that I can know why she thinks and feels that way.”

2. SELFISHNESS– difficult as this may sound but when we are self-centered, we tend to dismiss the other person’s feelings and say anything we want to say to suit our moods. To be outward-looking is to be concerned of the feelings of the other person. You can ask yourself “Did I make him happy today or did I hurt his feelings?” Most of the time because of pride we tend to hurt the other. In order to maintain unity in a relationship, we need to remove our pride. How? By thinking
and caring more for the other person and trying to serve him better.

3. LACK OF SHOW OF AFFECTION – we are social people. We interact with each other. One of the best ways to relay our feelings and concerns is a gentle touch, a warm hug, a peck in the cheek and other means of showing our affection. It is important to say “You know that I love you…” to the person dearest to you. However you need to also to show your love outwardly one way or another. Affection brings warmth and closeness to each other.

4. RELATIONSHIPS THAT ARE NOT GOD
CENTERED – Christians look at the phrase “Put God first in your Life”. Christians believe that GOD is LOVE and experience His immense love. With the awareness of putting God in the relationship, we elevate that relationship into a higher plane, a
higher level. This is an INCREDIBLE way of enhancing the relationship. Trust, concern, caring, being kind, forgiveness etc. naturally follows with this awareness that God is around,
guiding the relationship.

5. ABSENCE OF FRIENDSHIP – “we’re lovers, not friends” as a saying goes. But let’s face it, being married for say, 7 years would make any couple fall from the ‘romantic’ state and settle to
a “dry” relationship. But keeping in mind that you were friends before you got married and that you did things that you had in common, you can
press the “refresh” button and build that friendship.

Make the first move TODAY; don’t fall for the biggest reasons why relationships don’t work. Instead, communicate, be unselfish, show your
affection, think of God and be the best friend to your partner. You’ll be amazed with the results!!! God bless you today

Four (4) Ways To Exit A Relationship Gracefully

You know it’s time to move on from your current relationship, but every time you think of it, you cringe. You hate to be the bearer of heartache, so you’ve been putting it off. But now things are getting worse: he/she knows something’s up, the irritations are piling up, or the energy is draining you. Bottom line? You’ve got to man/woman up and get the job done so you can both move on with your lives. But not just any break up will do. How you call it quits is important. It can either be so ugly that it makes it hard to move on or, if done elegantly, it
can be a useful springboard to your next relationship.
Thankfully, there are some savvy exit strategies which will ensure that both you and your new ex are able to transition as smoothly as possible from one romance to the next.

EXIT STEP 1: CHANGE YOUR VIEWPOINT
As long as you think about breaking up as breaking their heart, it’s hard to take the plunge. But the truth is, if you aren’t the right match, then splitting now is the biggest gift you could possibly give them and yourself. Because then you’ll both be free to pursue the right relationship that can last. So take a moment to adopt a new
mindset and go into the next steps knowing you are giving him the most precious gift possible: their freedom to be loved.

EXIT STEP 2: GIVE A HEADS-UP
Nothing, and I do mean nothing, is worse than being blind-sided by a break-up. When it seems like a break-up comes out of the blue, it’s truly
traumatic. People hate to feel out of control, like something is being done to them, rather than participating in a decision. So never let ‘The Conversation’ be the first time you’ve talked about going your separate ways. When things start to get hairy, be sure you bring it up clearly, and attempt to problem solve. Then, if the problems aren’t resolving, it won’t be a surprise to anyone, and emotional preparations will have paved the way to separate.

EXIT STEP 3: HAVE THE CONVERSATION, GRATITUDE-STYLE
These days, it’s so easy for people to wuss out and break-up the weenie way: via email, text, or voice message. You don’t want to be that person. Value yourself and your new ex enough to end it, face to face. But not with just any sad or angry conversation, you want to part ways with graceful gratitude. So prepare ahead of time by thinking of the things you appreciated about your partner, the lessons you learned, and the gifts you offered to each other. Then at a good time, sit down and be super clear about your decision to move on. Provide whatever level of detail your partner needs to understand the why’s. But do so in a gentle, kind way by sharing all of the things you are also thankful for during your time together. Invite your partner to share in a similar way, despite the pain or discomfort of the circumstance.

EXIT STEP 4: MAKE A CLEAN BREAK
Break ups have a way of being messy, on again- off again affairs, which only end up causing more pain. So once you’ve celebrated your relationship
for what was good, and shared the reasons you no longer can be together, it’s time to agree to a No-Contact Period. In the weeks immediately following a break up, it’s really hard to move on if you keep touching base via email, text, or phone. It’s like pulling the scab off your wounds- they take longer to heal than if you just leave it alone. By agreeing to not connect with each other for a period of time, say 2 weeks to 2 months, you give each other the space to grieve, begin emotional separation, and let go to stand on your own two feet again. Be sure you agree on a time frame you can each live with, and if you both wish to remain friends, you can reconnect after that time.

After your parting, give yourself time to heal and move on before dating again and you should be ready to start from a fresh, clean, positive place!

Where do You Belong?

To My Friends Who Are…MARRIED
Love is not about “it’s your fault”, but “I’m sorry”, not “where are you’ but “I’m right here”, not “how could you” but “I understand”, not “I wish you were”, but “I’m thankful you are.”

To My Friends Who Are…ENGAGED
The true measure of compatibility is not the years spent together
but how good you are for each other.

To My Friends Who Are…NOT SO SINGLE
Love isn’t about becoming somebody else’s “perfect person.” It’s about finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be.

To My Friends Who Are..HEARTBROKEN
Heartbreaks last as long as you want and cut deep as you allow them to go. The challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks but to learn from them.

To My Friends Who Are…NAIVE
How to be in love: Fall but don’t stumble, be consistent but not too persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand, and get hurt but never keep the pain.

To My Friends Who Are…SEARCHING
True love cannot be found where it does not truly exist, nor can it be hidden where it truly does. Love is magic. The more we hide it, the more it shows; the more you suppress it, the more it grows.

To My Friends Who Are…PLAYERS(BOY/GIRL) TYPE
Never say I love if you don’t care. Never talk about feelings if they aren’t there. Never touch a life if you mean to break a heart. Never look in the eye when what you do is lie. The cruellest thing a guy can do to a girl is to let her fall in love when he doesn’t intend to catch her fall.

To My Friends Who Are…POSSESSIVE
It breaks your heart to see the one you love happy with someone else but it’s more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you.

To My Friends Who Are…AFRAID TO CONFESS
Love hurts when you break up with someone. It hurts even more when someone breaks up with you. But love hurts the most when the person you love has no idea how you feel.

To My Friends Who Are…STILLHOLDING ON
A sad thing about life is that when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never bound to be and we just have to let go.

To My Friends Who Are…SINGLE
Love is like a butterfly. The more you chase it, the more it eludes you. But if you just let it fly, it would come to you when you least expect it. Love can make you happy but often times it hurts, but love is only special when you give it to someone who is worth it. So take your time and choose the best!